Best hair creme or wave spray for big/medium waves?

i want something to put in my hair after i take a shower and can reapply for quick fixes. i have medium/big curls and shoulder-length hair. what i want this product to give me is frizz-free, voluminous, texurized, bouncy, and up-held curls. not a mousse or hairspray because those will make my hair crunchy when its wet. i want my semi-wet/damp hair to NOT stick together and i want something i can sleep in. any recommendations will help. thanks!